IMO it’s more that the Rust community has fostered a culture of doing things carefully and doing them well whenever possible (I mean, it’s the language that will argue with you for hours over reference lifetimes, after all).
There are certainly high expectations in the Rust community about doing things perfectly. But I don't think those "async ecosystem" discussions are a good example of productive discussions. I think e.g. in C++ there had been far more expert talk on standarization, within expert groups - like for the standarization of executors or the networking TS. And yet after 5 years or so nothing had been standardized yet.
In Rust the amount of people that actually work on the low level details and try to make things better is likely < 5. But there are a lot of expectations from everyone else about having perfect interoperability.
